Outrageous Mastery® Phenomenon

From The Home of Sasha Xarrian

Today my two adorable little granddaughters fly in from Sacramento, California. Sometimes when I think of how much I love them it brings tears to my eyes. How incredible is it to be loved and adored. Little children are experts at loving and adoring – along with being so incredibly fun!

I remember when I began having children thinking, “I have never felt a love like this.” I remember filling up on it all the time especially when I rocked them to sleep or laid by them at night as they fell asleep.

I remember often feeling the conflict of either watching and adoring them in their cuteness or grabbing them and hugging and kissing them. I would always want to do both and would have to restrain myself from hugging and kissing them all the time.

What would our lives be like if we felt that kind of love in our lives every day? Can you imagine how happy and fulfilled we would be?

Can you imagine how our ability to create would expand?

Children grow up and learn behaviors and responses that inhibit them from free expression and from loving full-out. We all have.

What if we could create a bond of “loved ones” that freely expressed their love for us and gave us the freedom to return that love?

How many of our problems would go away?

How many illnesses would magically be healed?

I am going to give you one little idea to begin creating this in your life and I am going to challenge myself to do the same.

Whenever we speak with anyone, we can look them in the eye and give them our full attention and love. We can feel our appreciation for them in that moment and let it shine through our eyes. In that moment we can fully respect them for who they are and who they have been. If appropriate we can physically touch them or hug them.

Lets be intensely there with them. Lets let honor and love and respect envelop them as they stand in our presence. Lets let our love vibrate through their bones.

When we do this, the love we “generate and create” will begin to fill up every cell in our bodies. We will walk away with a smile and with warmth and honor burning inside us.

Every time we remember to do this, we are going to honor and praise ourselves as we walk away.

Will you take the challenge and do this with me?

I hope so.

In love and mastery,

Sasha Xarrian

Your comments are loved and appreciated.

Mastery With Love

From The Home of Sasha Xarrian

I am sitting at a car repair shop way out in the country. It is the first time I have been here. The owner came into the waiting room while I was typing on my laptop and asked me what my business was. I gave him a ten second explanation and for the next fifteen minutes he spoke about being a parent and owning a business.

He said his father only came to one of his ball games and he wanted to be a better dad than his father was. I remember my mother always saying, “I am trying to be a better mother than my mom and I expect you to be a better one than me.” She repeated that so often that I just assumed I would be.

My mother and I were very different but I liked and still like the idea of each generation improving on the one before.

I learned wonderful mothering skills from my mother. And on the other hand there are things she did that I have tried to not replicate. And then there are things she did that bothered me so much I found myself in a pendulum swing in the complete opposite direction.

Sometimes we have to be careful that our pendulum of emotions and actions don’t go too far in the opposite direction. (Many times that causes our children to jump on the ride and swing their pendulum opposite ours - - and the swing-ride is perpetuated once again.)

In evaluating your own life, have you improved on the way your parents lived and behaved?

Are you living in rebellion?

Are you doing what you love?

Are you living your life because that is what you want or because someone else wanted it for you?

My mother could be rather controlling and as a young mother, I remember saying to her, “Mom, you have lived your life the way you chose. Now it is my turn. You can’t live both of our lives. I need the opportunity to make my own choices and live my own life.”

And when I made life-altering decisions that shook her world, I told her that she didn’t need to worry about reporting to God that she had failed. I told her that she had been a wonderful mother, had raised me right and now I was fully responsible for my own actions and decisions. She could report to God that she had done all she could to keep me on the “straight and narrow.” (Of course, her “straight and narrow” was following the precepts of the Mormon religion.)

It can be difficult in our world of influence and control to go within, know what is really important to us, and then take action in that direction.

You are important.

Your feelings and desires matter.

It is vital to feel like you are always growing, learning and improving. We are made to strive for more. It is in our DNA.

It is vital that we each live a life that fulfills us, that grows us, that challenges us, and that is uniquely our own.

The judgment of your life belongs to you and only you.

There will always be others judging your behavior and motivations but the final decisions and responsibility belongs to you. And at the end of this mortal life, you will either wish or be grateful that you lived the life you chose – and that you learned your lessons – and played with them along the way.

Are you proud of who you are?

If not, why not?

Is it because of another’s judgment of you or because you know you are not living up to who you know you can be and are not living the life you truly desire?

You are the only one that can make that decision.

You are the only one that can judge your life.

And - - you are the only one that can change it.

Create the life “you” dream of.

Start right now!

In love and mastery,

Sasha Xarrian

Mastery With Love

From The Home of Sasha Xarrian

Have you ever had one thing after another go wrong and wondered what was going on or why it was happening to you?

It seems like most of us have this happen every once in a while. When it happens to me - - whoops - - I mean when I create a series of events like that, I have to stop and take stock of what I am thinking, saying and believing.

Then, of course, I need to reroute my brain.

When I moved to Nevada I went to a dentist that must have been the worst one in the world. Problem after problem developed because of his mistakes. And because of it I became rather leery when it came to trying another one.

I am the type of person who researches everything to death and that is what I did before beginning major work (and expense) with the next dentist.

Once gain, this dentist began making mistakes and having things go wrong with my dental work and every time I would drive to an appointment I would “try” and direct that everything would go perfectly.

It usually didn’t.

Now, here I am in Texas and again I need a dentist. I researched dentists as usual, chose one and went to my first appointment yesterday.

I couldn’t believe the amount of mistakes she made. She even would say, “Oh I just made a huge mistake!”

Consequently, as I was driving home after two hours of being in the dental chair, I had to think to myself, “What is going on with me and dentists?”

The first thing that came to my mind was the fact that I had been married to one for seventeen years and that wasn’t the greatest experience in the world. Thinking about that made me laugh because I realized I had already started out with fairly negative feelings about dentists.

Then I realized that over time I have come to almost expect a disastrous experience whenever I visit a dentist.

And, as my children will attest to, I love telling stories. So, I tend to relate experiences repeatedly to others either with drama or laughter. I am a rather passionate person.

Thinking about all of this yesterday I realized that I was giving the negative thoughts and fears energy that kept getting stronger.

My belief was almost absolute that I could or would have a disastrous experience when I went to a dentist.

Consequently, as I “tried” to direct the experience to something completely opposite to my inner beliefs, my directing didn’t work. As I “tried” to believe that I would now create a different – better – experience, it didn’t work either.

So, what I have done to “fix” the problem, is to begin giving energy to the belief that those experiences are in the past - - and will remain there - - forever.

I will not discuss any of these negative experiences with anyone.

And I will not give energy to them through my thoughts. (I just corrected the previous sentence because what I originally wrote was, “I will ‘try’ and not give energy . . .”). The way I will do this is to stop the thoughts that want to keep going over everything the dentist did that was wrong, thoughts about how this will now cause my next visit to a new dentist more time in the dental chair, thoughts about how I keep having these bad experiences, wondering why this keeps happening, and being angry or frustrated because of it.

Taking it one step further, I will laugh when I think about these experiences. There is always an element of humor in them.

I have decreed that I will now find and be led to the best dentists in the world and their hands will perform magic in my mouth!

I already feel so much better having decided on these actions and I have already begun taking them.

What about you?

Do you seem to have a recurring experience that you would rather not have?

There is a reason this is happening. And you have the power to stop them.

Implement the steps that I have. Here they are again:

1. State and believe that the series of negative experiences are now in your past and you are finished with them. They will never be part of your present or future again.

2. Never mention these past experiences again – to anyone. And no story-telling.
3. Distract your mind when you begin thinking about them.
4. Stop wondering why it is happening to you. Stop lamenting. Stop trying to figure out what went wrong. Stop being angry. Stop being frustrated. Vanish all thoughts about the situation or fear that it may recur.
5. Every time one of the preceding thoughts pops into your mind, laugh out loud!
6. Direct and decree what you will experience in the future.

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In love and mastery,
Sasha Xarrian

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